Cat Stressors

Sep. 2nd, 2025 04:20 pm
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We got the rest of our paperwork and stickers and such from the pet moving company yesterday for our big move of Elmer to the East Coast. I have no idea why we got mail delivery on Labor Day, but it's not the first time we've gotten mail delivery on a holiday here, and it was very welcome because there were PROBLEMS.

The main problem was that the pet delivery company had sent us various bits of info in the past, but what we got yesterday added on requirements and/or changed things.

The big problem was that we'd ordered a crate for Elmer that met airline requirements for cats and that we'd even verified with the pet moving company. Kimberly had shot a video to show them Elmer walking in and out of the carrier. And then we got the paperwork and it said that it had to be bigger. Which is stressful here on Hawaii because it often takes a week or more to even get something from Amazon! But we found a crate that fit their requirements and were able to expedite its shipping to *hopefully* get it here on Thursday.

The second big problem was that we'd scheduled Elmer's health certificate vet visit for Friday, because we knew that his first possible flight would be next Monday. We didn't know *when* it would be after that, because we still didn't have the info from the pet moving company, so we purposefully scheduled it for the last workday before that, because the health certificate is only good for ten days. Well that packet of info also said that we needed to send the certificate to the pet movers in advance, so they could double-check that there were no problems. Which is entirely rational, but they didn't tell us!!!

But it is all dealt with now. Kimberly found a new crate, and we went around in many circles to ascertain it was the right size (confused by the fact that Amazon's datablock showed it being slightly shorter than the actual manufacturer info-image). The pet mover has said this one is OK (too). Kimberly got us a new vet appointment today. And we've been there and back.

We took Elmer back and forth to the vet today in the previous new crate, which we now know is not big enough. But we wanted to acclimatize to being in a bigger one. He was totally chill, just lounging about and barely complaining about the trip. We take that as a great sign.

Elmer also seems to like his new carpet for the bottom of the crate, which is the second one we got. The first one was a shag rug, and he mostly refuses to touch it. (In fact, I moved it to our sitting bench today and Mango refused to touch it too until he flipped it over, shag side down, at which point he happily laid on it.) Sour grapes: the first rug was too small for the new crate anyway. But I ordered a much bigger low-pile rug that I thought I was going to have to cut down for the crate, and it came in that weird Labor Day mail, and I offered Elmer some catnip on it yesterday, and he's totally won over by it, and was laying on the rug during part of my work day. So, another good sign.

So after a stressful day (moreso: a stressful evening last night), we seem to be back on track thanks mainly to Kimberly running around and taking care of everything. And we're a bit peeved with the pet movers for inefficiency and poor info sharing, but everyone says their actual moving of animals is great, and that's what's important, not a tiny bit of unhappiness for us.

Kimberly said the last thing on our checklist for them was the health certificate, which she sent after we got back from the vet. For us, the biggest item on the checklist is getting that crate, but it will hopefully arrive in two days. (Then we have to decorate it with stickers and envelopes and food bags, but that should be some minor work once that new crates gets from Phoenix where it was checked in this morning to us.)

Whew. Why is nothing ever easy, even when you're paying someone to make something easy?

Code deploy happening shortly

Aug. 31st, 2025 07:37 pm
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Per the [site community profile] dw_news post regarding the MS/TN blocks, we are doing a small code push shortly in order to get the code live. As per usual, please let us know if you see anything wonky.

There is some code cleanup we've been doing that is going out with this push but I don't think there is any new/reworked functionality, so it should be pretty invisible if all goes well.

Limbo

Aug. 31st, 2025 01:27 pm
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I feel like we've been dwelling in limbo for the last two and a half weeks. We got back from our anniversary trip to Oahu and we almost immediately had an offer of a new home for Elmer. Kimberly has been taking care of almost all the logistics (with the support of a pet moving company who services Hawaii and regularly moves pets to Europe, so we know they should be able to get him to the East Coast.) And even that is mostly settled now other than a few details: an absorbent carpet for the bottom of Elmer's new dog-crate (with Amazon already having lost one! thanks, good timing, Amazon), some stickers and a document envelope for the outside of the crate (which we're waiting on from said pet movers), and of course Elmer's final vet appointment next Friday to get his certificate of health.

But we've been stuck between the decision to rehome Elmer (and it becoming a reality) and needing to wait because our adopter has a business trip this week I think and so couldn't take Elmer until the 8th. That's been somewhat agonizing, because it means we have to confront that decision every day, and at the same time we can't really move forward.

I haven't even felt the energy to get back to the house projects I'd just gotten started on, because it feels like all the energy is going toward the hurry-up-and-wait of Elmer's situation. (But I did get some primer down on some supports for the house in the back yard this morning, where the paint had gotten scraped away over the years and so these important pillars were open to our very corrosive elements. That was part of my normal Sunday working in the yard though.)

We got Elmer's itinerary on Thursday. We have to drop him off at 4.30 in the morning a week from tomorrow. That makes it all feel the more crazy. Meeting someone in the pitch dark, down by the airport, to hand off our beloved cat. And, I mean, hopefully they're there. The cargo company actually opens at 6am, but the pet movers say they've contacted them and someone will be there at 4.30. Hopefully, probably OK, but I hate having more stressors like that.

We had thought Elmer would have an overnight layover, but he's going straight from Kauai to Boston via Oahu. Unfortunately, with about 4 hours sitting around before his 8am flight to Oahu, then a similar wait on Oahu. It'll be about 22 hours door to door. That sounds like a long miserable time for Elmer, but the pet movers say they prefer not to overnight the pets if they don't have to, because it makes the trip longer and stresses them out more. So, we bow to their experience. Hopefully Elmer will just lounge around his crate not caring most of the time.

Elmer has been so much cuter and more cuddly in the last few weeks. He's hanging out more upstairs (which unfortunately means Megara gets locked in our bedroom), and is even cuddling against Kimberly as I write. We take this as a good sign, because he should get more attention as the only cat at his new home, and clearly he's been thriving on the more attention he's gotten since we made the decision to give him up.

And I feel increasingly confident about his new home. His new owner finished setting up most or all of his supplies a week or two ago. He's got a cat tree ready to go. He's not only been cutting up cardboard boxes to make his own scratch pads, but also 3-D printed a tool to make it easier to cut the boxes! He sounds like he'll be an attentive thoughtful cat owner.

But knowing we'll probably never see Elmer again after a clandestine handoff in the dark in eight days is still tough.
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A reminder to everyone that starting tomorrow, we are being forced to block access to any IP address that geolocates to the state of Mississippi for legal reasons while we and Netchoice continue fighting the law in court. People whose IP addresses geolocate to Mississippi will only be able to access a page that explains the issue and lets them know that we'll be back to offer them service as soon as the legal risk to us is less existential.

The block page will include the apology but I'll repeat it here: we don't do geolocation ourselves, so we're limited to the geolocation ability of our network provider. Our anti-spam geolocation blocks have shown us that their geolocation database has a number of mistakes in it. If one of your friends who doesn't live in Mississippi gets the block message, there is nothing we can do on our end to adjust the block, because we don't control it. The only way to fix a mistaken block is to change your IP address to one that doesn't register as being in Mississippi, either by disconnecting your internet connection and reconnecting it (if you don't have a static IP address) or using a VPN.

In related news, the judge in our challenge to Tennessee's social media age verification, parental consent, and parental surveillance law (which we are also part of the fight against!) ruled last month that we had not met the threshold for a temporary injunction preventing the state from enforcing the law while the court case proceeds.

The Tennesee law is less onerous than the Mississippi law and the fines for violating it are slightly less ruinous (slightly), but it's still a risk to us. While the fight goes on, we've decided to prevent any new account signups from anyone under 18 in Tennessee to protect ourselves against risk. We do not need to block access from the whole state: this only applies to new account creation.

Because we don't do any geolocation on our users and our network provider's geolocation services only apply to blocking access to the site entirely, the way we're implementing this is a new mandatory question on the account creation form asking if you live in Tennessee. If you do, you'll be unable to register an account if you're under 18, not just the under 13 restriction mandated by COPPA. Like the restrictions on the state of Mississippi, we absolutely hate having to do this, we're sorry, and we hope we'll be able to undo it as soon as possible.

Finally, I'd like to thank every one of you who's commented with a message of support for this fight or who's bought paid time to help keep us running. The fact we're entirely user-supported and you all genuinely understand why this fight is so important for everyone is a huge part of why we can continue to do this work. I've also sent a lot of your comments to the lawyers who are fighting the actual battles in court, and they find your wholehearted support just as encouraging and motivating as I do. Thank you all once again for being the best users any social media site could ever hope for. You make me proud and even more determined to yell at state attorneys general on your behalf.

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I'll start with the tl;dr summary to make sure everyone sees it and then explain further: As of September 1, we will temporarily be forced to block access to Dreamwidth from all IP addresses that geolocate to Mississippi for legal reasons. This block will need to continue until we either win the legal case entirely, or the district court issues another injunction preventing Mississippi from enforcing their social media age verification and parental consent law against us.

Mississippi residents, we are so, so sorry. We really don't want to do this, but the legal fight we and Netchoice have been fighting for you had a temporary setback last week. We genuinely and honestly believe that we're going to win it in the end, but the Fifth Circuit appellate court said that the district judge was wrong to issue the preliminary injunction back in June that would have maintained the status quo and prevented the state from enforcing the law requiring any social media website (which is very broadly defined, and which we definitely qualify as) to deanonymize and age-verify all users and obtain parental permission from the parent of anyone under 18 who wants to open an account.

Netchoice took that appellate ruling up to the Supreme Court, who declined to overrule the Fifth Circuit with no explanation -- except for Justice Kavanaugh agreeing that we are likely to win the fight in the end, but saying that it's no big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime.

Needless to say, it's a big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime. The Mississippi law is a breathtaking state overreach: it forces us to verify the identity and age of every person who accesses Dreamwidth from the state of Mississippi and determine who's under the age of 18 by collecting identity documents, to save that highly personal and sensitive information, and then to obtain a permission slip from those users' parents to allow them to finish creating an account. It also forces us to change our moderation policies and stop anyone under 18 from accessing a wide variety of legal and beneficial speech because the state of Mississippi doesn't like it -- which, given the way Dreamwidth works, would mean blocking people from talking about those things at all. (And if you think you know exactly what kind of content the state of Mississippi doesn't like, you're absolutely right.)

Needless to say, we don't want to do that, either. Even if we wanted to, though, we can't: the resources it would take for us to build the systems that would let us do it are well beyond our capacity. You can read the sworn declaration I provided to the court for some examples of how unworkable these requirements are in practice. (That isn't even everything! The lawyers gave me a page limit!)

Unfortunately, the penalties for failing to comply with the Mississippi law are incredibly steep: fines of $10,000 per user from Mississippi who we don't have identity documents verifying age for, per incident -- which means every time someone from Mississippi loaded Dreamwidth, we'd potentially owe Mississippi $10,000. Even a single $10,000 fine would be rough for us, but the per-user, per-incident nature of the actual fine structure is an existential threat. And because we're part of the organization suing Mississippi over it, and were explicitly named in the now-overturned preliminary injunction, we think the risk of the state deciding to engage in retaliatory prosecution while the full legal challenge continues to work its way through the courts is a lot higher than we're comfortable with. Mississippi has been itching to issue those fines for a while, and while normally we wouldn't worry much because we're a small and obscure site, the fact that we've been yelling at them in court about the law being unconstitutional means the chance of them lumping us in with the big social media giants and trying to fine us is just too high for us to want to risk it. (The excellent lawyers we've been working with are Netchoice's lawyers, not ours!)

All of this means we've made the extremely painful decision that our only possible option for the time being is to block Mississippi IP addresses from accessing Dreamwidth, until we win the case. (And I repeat: I am absolutely incredibly confident we'll win the case. And apparently Justice Kavanaugh agrees!) I repeat: I am so, so sorry. This is the last thing we wanted to do, and I've been fighting my ass off for the last three years to prevent it. But, as everyone who follows the legal system knows, the Fifth Circuit is gonna do what it's gonna do, whether or not what they want to do has any relationship to the actual law.

We don't collect geolocation information ourselves, and we have no idea which of our users are residents of Mississippi. (We also don't want to know that, unless you choose to tell us.) Because of that, and because access to highly accurate geolocation databases is extremely expensive, our only option is to use our network provider's geolocation-based blocking to prevent connections from IP addresses they identify as being from Mississippi from even reaching Dreamwidth in the first place. I have no idea how accurate their geolocation is, and it's possible that some people not in Mississippi might also be affected by this block. (The inaccuracy of geolocation is only, like, the 27th most important reason on the list of "why this law is practically impossible for any site to comply with, much less a tiny site like us".)

If your IP address is identified as coming from Mississippi, beginning on September 1, you'll see a shorter, simpler version of this message and be unable to proceed to the site itself. If you would otherwise be affected, but you have a VPN or proxy service that masks your IP address and changes where your connection appears to come from, you won't get the block message, and you can keep using Dreamwidth the way you usually would.

On a completely unrelated note while I have you all here, have I mentioned lately that I really like ProtonVPN's service, privacy practices, and pricing? They also have a free tier available that, although limited to one device, has no ads or data caps and doesn't log your activity, unlike most of the free VPN services out there. VPNs are an excellent privacy and security tool that every user of the internet should be familiar with! We aren't affiliated with Proton and we don't get any kickbacks if you sign up with them, but I'm a satisfied customer and I wanted to take this chance to let you know that.

Again, we're so incredibly sorry to have to make this announcement, and I personally promise you that I will continue to fight this law, and all of the others like it that various states are passing, with every inch of the New Jersey-bred stubborn fightiness you've come to know and love over the last 16 years. The instant we think it's less legally risky for us to allow connections from Mississippi IP addresses, we'll undo the block and let you know.

life still too lifey, urgh

Aug. 25th, 2025 01:04 pm
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... yeah, I fell off the face of the internet again. It happens. Especially when there's a lot of stuff going on.

trigger warning: pet loss )

Lucas and I adopted a pair of new cats about a month ago - Will and Moira. They're young - Moira's not quite a year old yet, and Will is somewhere around 2 years old - and very playful, and they get along well. I think they're on their way to being a bonded pair; they came from the same colony room at the shelter and play together well, which makes me happy. I have to take them to the vet for their first checkup on Wednesday, which I'm a little stressed out about, but that's mostly because Will didn't handle being crated well when we brought him home from the shelter, and this'll be my first time ever taking two cats to the vet at the same time. I'm sure it'll be fine, but people who've known me for a while know I worry about everything too much.

Today's the first day of the new school year at IU. It's been quiet for me so far, but that could change - it's early in the afternoon, heh. (Speaking of work, though, I should probably go focus on that meeting I'm supposed to be in...)

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